“Comparison is the thief of joy.” —TR

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I’ve lived most of my life comparing myself to others, from looks to grades, sports, skills, social media followers, etc.  Once we begin down that road, we never find an end. It is a decision that only steals joy from our lives and a habit with numerous shortcomings:

• Comparisons are always unfair.

• Comparisons rob us of precious time.

• You are too unique to compare fairly.

• You have nothing to gain, but much to lose. your pride, your dignity, your drive, and your passion.

• There is no end to the possible number of comparisons.

• Comparisons often result in resentment.

• Comparisons deprive us of joy.

How do you stop constantly comparing yourself to others? Here are some useful tips that have worked really well:

Tips on How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

• Be aware of its ill effects.

• See your own successes.

• Desire the greater things in life.

• Compete less and appreciate more.  

• Practice gratitude.

• Remind yourself nobody is perfect.

• Find inspiration without comparison.

• Compare with yourself.