fake friends

an open letter to those who have stabbed me in the back

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Thank you for teaching me the true value of friendship. Because of you, I realized life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of me. I used to have lingering thoughts about our friendship, the joy we shared. But then, I understand one thing. You are just like clouds. When you disappear, it’s a beautiful day. Living in the past is never the solution to anything. What I have to do on my part is to let it go and accept whatever is presented in front of me. Focus on the future. I’ve also learned something new about myself. I’m fake. I would comment on people’s posts and do the whole “you’re so pretty!” or “OMG QUEEN” jargon. These are merely some social media encouragements, though. If I don’t vibe with someone in real life, I wouldn’t waste both of our time and pretend as I care. I wouldn’t manipulate my friends just to gain an advantage or be convenient in situations. I hope that you could learn the same and be comfortable sharing how you truly feel. It would be heavy baggage to let go of. It took a lot for me to get through the rotten friendships. Now that I grew stronger, I can spot the ones just like you from a mile away. Please consider before you act because people’s emotions are not something to mess with. You could really impact their life in a negative way. Being kind to others is being kind to yourself.